ni hao !
after i tell some of my peer groups about what wuld happen with me and him
there were so many opinions
some told me not to do it
another ones told me that its your own choice fa
but mostly said that this decision will hurt as
" why bother taking a risk ?" they said
but you know, sometimes i do dont know the exact answers too
all i know its already decided by both of us
and none of us will canceled it
i'm used to to have unpopular decision
or different perspective from others around me
but for this decision..
i really hope, i'm not gonna regret it
i really hope, all the bad things they said wont be real
i really hope that i taking the right decision
after i tell some of my peer groups about what wuld happen with me and him
there were so many opinions
some told me not to do it
another ones told me that its your own choice fa
but mostly said that this decision will hurt as
" why bother taking a risk ?" they said
but you know, sometimes i do dont know the exact answers too
all i know its already decided by both of us
and none of us will canceled it
i'm used to to have unpopular decision
or different perspective from others around me
but for this decision..
i really hope, i'm not gonna regret it
i really hope, all the bad things they said wont be real
i really hope that i taking the right decision
Ni Hao !
Maapin kalo judulnya agak random hahaha
Tapi somehow lagi pengen bahas ini ajaah
Bukan karena pengen cepet nikah juga sih ( kariiir dulu kalee !)
Cuma pengen share tentang pernikahan dari perspektif gue ( gaya bgt)
Gue adalah salah satu orang yang suka ngamatin orang lain
Nah salah satu hal yang suka gue amatin juga dari orang-orang sekitar gue ( baca : om tante ) adalah hubungan mereka dalam pernikahan.
Well, setiap pasangan pasti punya jenis hubungan pernikahan yang bedaa
Ada yang masih mesraa bgt bahkan ampe udah umur 50tahunan gitu
Ada yang cenderung cuek
Ada yang dominan dan pasangannya jadi nurut sama dia.
Dan ada juga yang pas udah tua malah cerai ( kyk artis aja yah )
Beragamnya hubungan di pernikahan itu pasti disebabin oleh banyak hal kan yah
Ada yang bilang karakter pribadi terus alasan mereka nikah ( pacaran, dijodohin, "kecelakaan" dll)
Ada juga yang bilang karena keadaan finansial ( jadi kalo kaya pasti akur ?)
Orang tua gue sendiri juga bukan merupakan pasangan yang sempurna
Seperti yang Ifa ceritain mungkin pas tahun 2010
Bahwa they've been through a hard time during their marriage even until today
Dan Ifa jadi sadaar banget kalo yang berkorban tuh bukan cuma satu pihak aja tapi juga keduanya.
Jadi makin nyadar banget kalo pernikahan itu bukan sesuatu yang mudah
Bukan cuma lo suka sm pacar lo terus lo punya duit terus nikah deh
Bukan itu !
Pernikahan itu kayak janji seumur hidup yang mau kayak gimanapun harus tetap lo pertahanin ! ( yeah but i never tolerate abusive marriage)
Pernikahan itu juga bukan tentang lo berdua doang
Banyak banget pihak yang jadi keikut : orang tua, kakak adek, mertua, ipar dan banyak lagi.
Jadi intinya ?
Yah mungkin kita nih yang umurnya udah 21keatas gitu udah mulai harus mulai siapin apa sih yang dibutuhin kalo mau nikah.
Gue bukan ngomongin soal finansial, jabatan , rumah dll yah
Tapi maksud gue adalah karakter-karakter kita gitu
Kayak mungkin udah harus makin dewasa dalam menghadapi sesuatu masalah
Udah harus makin peduli sama orangtua karena nanti pas nikah kan orangtuanya nambah haha
Udah harus makin bertanggung jawab karena nanti kalo udah nikah tanggung jawabnya double haha
Dan masih banyak karakter lainnya !
Supaya nanti kalo calonnya udah ada dan keadaannya mendukung,
Kita sudah siap luar dalam hahaha :D
Semoga kita semua dapat Jodoh yang di-Ridhoi oleh Allah SWT yaa
Aamiin Ya Rabbal Alamin
* ps : tulisan ini bukanlah kode atau apapun itu. cuma bentuk keisengan belaka
dan gue baru mau nikah 3-4 tahun lagi kok hihi :3
I know the title is reallly lame but i think life after graduated from colloge is one of the hardest moment
Hmm dont know why but what path you choose will really affected to your upcoming life.
I used to think that the " career galauness" will only attack those who dont have any life target
But then i felt it too ! Hehe
At first i really hope i could being an employee on FMCG company or Brand Consultant
And i still only insisted it to by my priority until now
The problem is sometimes life isn't happen as you expect to be
We have to admitted that the competitiveness in career world is really huge right now.
There's much more person with higher GPA, higher capabilty of English etc
All i have to do is just doing my best and pray to Allah SWT
Hmm dont know why but what path you choose will really affected to your upcoming life.
I used to think that the " career galauness" will only attack those who dont have any life target
But then i felt it too ! Hehe
At first i really hope i could being an employee on FMCG company or Brand Consultant
And i still only insisted it to by my priority until now
The problem is sometimes life isn't happen as you expect to be
We have to admitted that the competitiveness in career world is really huge right now.
There's much more person with higher GPA, higher capabilty of English etc
All i have to do is just doing my best and pray to Allah SWT
Hellooo ! Been a while not blogging hihi
Was really busy with the thesis thing
And now, i'm finally graduated !
Eventhough still have revisions to do and also journals
But it really relieved to finally through the thesis defense. hihi :)
Alhamdulillah it went well enough.
Anyway, wish me luck for the Nestle MT Programs yaa
I know the competitions is really competitive
But i really hope i could be the part of Nestlee :")
Thats all !
Gonna be share the photos of my graduate soon :)
Zai Jian !
Was really busy with the thesis thing
And now, i'm finally graduated !
Eventhough still have revisions to do and also journals
But it really relieved to finally through the thesis defense. hihi :)
Alhamdulillah it went well enough.
Anyway, wish me luck for the Nestle MT Programs yaa
I know the competitions is really competitive
But i really hope i could be the part of Nestlee :")
Thats all !
Gonna be share the photos of my graduate soon :)
Zai Jian !
